ConvErSATIonS
anne bradstreet
“To her Father with Some verses,” c. 1659
Most truly honored, and as truly dear,
If worth in me or aught I do appear
Who can of right better demand the same
Than may your worthy self, from whom it came?
The principal might yield a greater sum,
Yet, handled ill, amounts but to this crumb.
My stock’s so small I know not how to pay,
My bond remains in force unto this day;
Yet for part payment take this simple mite.
Where nothing’s to be had kings lose their right.
Such is my debt I may not say “Forgive!”
But as I can I’ll pay it while I live;
Such is my bond none can discharge but I,
Yet, paying, is not paid until I die.
franz kafka
Letter to his father, 1919
Because you, driven by your own predilection and
sizeable appetite, ate everything fast, hot, and in
large mouthfuls, the child had to hurry, gloomy
silence reigned at the table, interrupted by admonitions: “First eat, then speak” or “Faster, faster, faster” or “Look, see, I finished ages ago.” We
were not allowed to crunch bones, you were. We
were not allowed to slurp vinegar, you were. The
main thing was for the bread to be cut straight,
but that you did so with a knife dripping with
gravy was irrelevant. We had to take care not
to let any scraps fall onto the floor; in the end
they lay mostly under your seat. At the table we
were to do nothing except eat, but you cleaned
and trimmed your fingernails, sharpened pencils, dug in your ears with your toothpick. Please
understand me correctly, Father, these would
in themselves have been utterly insignificant
details; they only came to depress me because
they meant that you, a figure of such tremendous authority for me, did not yourself abide by
the commandments you imposed. hence there
were for me three worlds, one where I lived, a
slave under laws that had been invented solely
for me and, moreover, with which I could never
fully comply (I did not know why), then another
world, infinitely distant from mine, in which you
dwelt, busy with ruling, issuing orders and being
angry when they were not obeyed, and finally, a
third realm where everybody else lived happily,
free from orders and obligation. I was forever
in disgrace.
